his dry sense of humor kills you, and dang those eyes!And then you learn that the same year you graduated college, he was wrapping up his freshman year—of high school.Guys mature emotionally at a much slower rate than women and can easily get into their thirties with the emotional intelligence of a five-year-old. Show her that your maturity ensures that a relationship with you is a true emotional partnership, not a one-way street to toy town! You don’t get to your later years without learning a thing or two.This doesn’t mean that you have to talk at length about quantum physics or sub-Saharan politics.
If she’s dating an older man, there’s probably a reason, and the best you can do in this situation is make the most of what you have and who you are.But stay away from the schoolyards, and don’t play with anyone’s fragile emotions.It’s more likely, however, that you just want to turn the clock back a decade or so and recapture the years that just slipped away in a bad marriage, a career-absorbed spinsterhood or a post-divorce black hole.Younger men are as adventurous outside of the bedroom as they are inside it, and they’ll bring out a more youthful, vibrant side of you, says Lori Bizzoco, founder and executive editor of Cupids “He will see you as smarter and worldlier, so he’ll want to please you, not just physically but emotionally and intellectually,” she says.“He’ll come up with creative date ideas that bring back romance and youth, and make you feel empowered and appreciated.”When you enter into a new relationship, it’s no secret you’re bringing former boyfriends along with you. “Men can have preconceived notions about women and relationships based on past experiences,” says Samantha Daniels, a professional matchmaker and president of Samantha's Table Matchmaking.